Anonymous asked: Im having trouble with confidence..... Im actually pretty good looking but im shorter than most girls i have interest in are taller than me by ATLEAST 8 inches (im a boy) but they think of me differently cause im short...... All of my friends are in relationships and they kinda nag me for that because i am not...... Im strong, im funny and if I had a friend that was a girl i bet they probally wouldn't feel the same that I do >.< please help (my height is 4'6 and I weigh 70 pounds and im 14)
First off, you are at an age where the girls grow much faster than the boys. You won’t be that height forever, so make the most of it while you can. I just responded to a message similar to yours a few minutes ago, check that one out, because my answer pertains to your story as well. Check out the book “The Power” and work on learning to love yourself for who you are and what you have to offer. WHen you feel down about yourself, other people pick up on that, and I hate to say it, but girls want a guy who is confident in their own skin (ideally). So as hard as it is to feel good about yourself NOW, that’s what it’s going to take to attract a girl, not the other way around!