Anonymous asked: The man in in love with is probably just over an inch or two shorter than me, when we're walking together you cant even tell the difference. But it stands out to me because i am so overweight and he's like a stick, like seriously skinny, just naturally. Thats his build. Because i notice thats he's smaller in every way it makes me feel so self-conscious about wanting to be with him :/ his ex was like 4 ft and the skinniest bitch out i feel so embarrassed, i cant compare with short and skinny :(
Aw babe, yes you can compete. Short and skinny has nothing on loving and appreciative. I’ve been where you are, I’m a thicker girl, and I’ve ALWAYS liked smaller guys. Even in elementary school, all of my “boyfriends” were little guys. You have to learn to love yourself or you’ll never be happy. Even if you were with a guy who was bigger than you, those underlying issues would still be there. Work on finding things about yourself that you love and that your man loves. Focus on those things, and forget the insecurities. Focusing on the negative will only cause you pain, is it really worth it to live that way?