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alybugg08 asked: I just wanna thank you for this blog! You have given me so much more confidence in my relationship. I am 5'9" and chubby and my bf, although 5 years older, is about 4in shorter. At first I was really self conscious but now I am completely proud to be in public, I even wear heels again :)

That is so great to hear babe! Never be afraid to be you. You are the only one, so you’ve got one shot at making it amazing :) Thank you for sharing your story. Best of luck with your man!

Ginny Weasley and Harry Potter!

Hey! In the movies, these heroes are tgsb!

And I want to say that my boyfriend of 2 1/2 year and I are tgsb too! We do not have such a huge height difference (he’s about 5’7,5” as I am about 5’8,5”), but it’s noticeable because I have bigger shoulders (you know, the swimmer’s shoulders? Or tennis player’s shoulders? But I don’t even play! hahaha!). The fact that I’m actually reading this blog makes me see that maybe I have some issues with me being taller than him but I really don’t want it to bother me. I love him so much and I know he does too! My ex was 6’2” but I was unhappy with him. It says it all! 

So, everyone, simply be with the one you really love! :)

(And sorry for my English, I’m French speaking!)


Harry and Ginny!



Caroline Wozniacki and Rory McIlroy

Caroline Wozniacki and Rory McIlroy



stitchjonze-deactivated20130715 asked: I am so glad I found your blog. I am a small guy 5-8 who is attracted to women 6-0+. I've live my life dealing with heightism. It is difficult to find any shape/size woman who is willing to date a short guy. Finding your blog is like walking through the desert and finding a tall cold glass of water! Its so refreshing for a short guy like me to find an oasis of tall women, Thank you :)

Wow!! Thank you! That’s what we’re here for :) Not everyone is shallow!



Anonymous asked: i'm 5'7" and i wear stilletos/platformed/wedged heels all the time so im usually noticeably taller than the guys i tend to enjoy dating. having a guy my height or a few inches shorter is awesome! i love holding people and playing with their hair when we cuddle... and they usually get a face full of boobies so its good for us both. hahahaha!

Omigod, YES ^^^^

Anonymous asked: [2/2]...on Feb 2013, we met for the first time. Yes, I noticed his height at first. I thought, "Damn, he IS short!" After a few minutes, it was normal. For the rest of my visit, I didn't even notice he's shorter than me, unless we took pictures :p...which didn't bother me at all.We still talk, but now, I definitely want him more than anyone in the world. Despite his height, he is honestly double the man that he is compared to other guys I've ever dated. I want him, all to myself, forever! :p

So glad you’ve gone through a situation that opened your eyes to true love! What’s on the outside pales in comparison to the inside. Let your love grow without the insecurities and it will be a good thing!

Anonymous asked: [1/2] I'm 29, started talking to a guy from the net on Jan. 2010. From day 1, we talk as if we're a couple. We can spend hours talking about anything and everything. We say we're bf/gf but "IRL", we say we're single. Since I'm "single", guys ask me out and even though I'm practically in love with this guy from the net, I keep him as my "last option" because he's 5'4 and I'm 5'9. I always though I'd get weirded out if/when we meet, so I kept my heart guarded and dated other guys. We met on...

Anonymous asked: My girlfriend is around 5'9, I'm just over 5'1. It's pretty awkward, especially when we are both trans*. She is male to female and I am female to male. We, specifically her, get ridiculed for this and others use this as 'proof' that we shouldn't be together. What do I do? Punching people in the face isn't the best course of action, though it would be the most gratifying. (I kid, I'm really non-violent.)

Omigosh, my heart is just breaking for you two. I wish there was an easy answer for this, but unfortunately, there are way too many hate-filled people in this world :( I guess the best thing to say is: would you rather conform to society and be miserable? Or smile in the face of hate and turn the other cheek? You have both obviously made the choice to be who you are, no matter what, and unfortunately in today’s world that can have negative consequences. I would love for you guys to check out a series of books. They are by Rhonda Byrne, the main ones I would pick up are The Secret and The Power (there’s actually a movie for The Secret on netflix you can check out). It’s so important that we love ourselves and the life we have now, because that’s the only way to bring about positive change. It’s much easier to say to ignore it and find  the confidence within than it is to do it, but that’s really the answer to a happy life. Check out those books and it will give you a starting point. I really hope this helps. Please don’t hesitate to keep us posted on your situation <3

Love the Blog!

I love your blog Tall girl! I’m a short boy and have been my whole life. It bothered me in high school, but as I got older I learned to appreciate my height. In fact, I would say I love being short because it makes me stand out. Well I just wanted to thank you for starting this blog and it’s nice to see that a TGSB community exists.. All the best!


**Thank you Mikie! I so appreciate your support, thank you for following and enjoying.

Anonymous asked: Not a question, but just wanted to thank you for helping me to understand something that is making my daughter unhappy. The boy she liked at fourteen was the same height as her then, but he has stopped growing (below 5' at a guess), while she is now quite tall at sixteen. Despite a mutual attraction obvious to the whole school year, he hasn't asked her out. I can now advise her better about what may be going on.

<3 That breaks my heart! As if being a teen isn’t hard enough, we have to add in these extra added pressures! Please direct her to this blog! We would love to have her :)

Been together nearly a year. He&#8217;s a fair few inches shorter than me but I love him to bits



Been together nearly a year. He’s a fair few inches shorter than me but I love him to bits


Anonymous asked: Hi, short guy here (5'3") dating a tall girl (5'10"). I saw an earlier post where a girl was saying the guy she was with felt awkward because he had to stand on his toes to kiss her, and wouldn't be seen in public with her for that reason. I too, went through that. The first time you date a tall girl you're unsure of how to handle certain situations. However I learned that it's really just getting used to her, not a height difference. No different than any relationship.

Thank you! This is a great perspective, as usually it’s girls who write in about the kissing thing! Thank you for helping us realize it’s no different than any other relationship. You try things out and you find what works for you both!

Thank you Emily, great story!

Thank you Emily, great story!

forbiddenintricacies asked: My boyfriend who is 5'7 and a half. (He gets mad if I leave off the half lol) and he found this and showed me because I'm 6'1 and he's obviously shorter than me. We started dating 3 years ago and have been on and off, but now we're together for good and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I know a lot of people are scared of what society will think, but it's not society that makes you happy, it's yourself, and the person you're destined to be with regardless of height

PREACH  GIRL!!! ^^This is exactly what I’m talking about. Only you can make you happy, and when you have the right tools (confidence, a supportive partner) it makes it all that much easier!